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I Was Never Meant to Stay the Same
Shedding new skin as the days go by and becoming the woman I used to pray about. Being in spaces that used to excite me doesn’t move me anymore. The energy, the people, and the environment all shifted… Well, at least for me it did. Graduating college really opened my eyes to how far I’ve come, how much I’ve grown, who’s no longer sitting at my table, and those who unexpectedly joined. I think one of the hardest parts about growth is realizing everybody can’t grow with you. Y

Imari Sacoy
May 92 min read


Becoming Unapologetically Her
Life gets better when you learn how to be you. What is it about humans that makes us change ourselves just to be liked? Why can’t we simply choose ourselves, exactly as we are, and be okay with that? Right now, a lot of young people hold themselves back from fully expressing who they are because they’re afraid of what others will think. But here’s the truth: when you embrace your authentic self, you put yourself first. You stop chasing validation and opinions because everyth

Imari Sacoy
Mar 312 min read


Breaking Up With My Timeline
Stepping back doesn’t mean you’re falling off, it means you’re growing in private. Lately, I’ve been in an era of choosing peace and real life over the constant scroll. Social media is entertaining, but it can also be draining, with everyone’s highlight reel, opinions, and expectations. The list goes on and on. So, I decided to step back. Not because anything was wrong, and even if it was, I wouldn’t dare spill it all here. But I wanted to hear myself again, to live without c

Imari Sacoy
Nov 16, 20252 min read


Learning to Enjoy Your Own Company
Normalize treating yourself the same way you would treat someone you love. Ladies, we have to start dating ourselves! Solo dates do something magical to the soul. It’s the easiest way to pour into ourselves without depending on someone else to bring us happiness or joy. And it really can be simple once you give yourself permission to just go. Create your own plans. Do what you want, simply because you can, without anyone telling you no. Being alone doesn’t make you lame or a

Imari Sacoy
Nov 14, 20252 min read


Embracing Imperfection
You Don’t Have to Have It All Together. Girl, you’re in your 20s. Why do you expect everything to be figured out by tomorrow? Your 20s are when your life begins. It’s a journey that’s uniquely yours. This is the time to figure it out along the way. Mistakes, heartbreak, and growth are moments to learn about yourself, what you like, and what you dislike, and to reflect on who you actually are. The present is your time to embrace everything around you. I know social media is t

Imari Sacoy
Oct 30, 20252 min read


Iconic Women Who Inspire Me
Women have been reshaping the world forever, and some leave an inspiring mark that’s impossible to forget. They carry this fire that...

Imari Sacoy
Oct 8, 20253 min read


The Power of Saying No
Unapologetically Off Limits. Hey girl, hey! You know it’s completely okay to say no sometimes without guilt. “No” is the perfect...

Imari Sacoy
Oct 7, 20252 min read


Pretty, Polished, and Unbothered
Ever since I was a little girl, I've always known that I would be a girly girl. From an early age, I cared about my appearance and how I...

Imari Sacoy
Oct 4, 20253 min read


The Beauty In Your Own Lane
“The minute you learn to love yourself, you will not want to be anybody else.” - Rihanna There’s beauty and inspiration in your...

Imari Sacoy
Oct 3, 20252 min read


How to Network Like a Queen
As a first-generation student and soon-to-be graduate, I’ve always felt immense pressure on myself. Since I’m setting the standard for my...

Imari Sacoy
Oct 2, 20252 min read
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